I’ve been thinking about this for a while. Every time a brutal rape case shakes the country, the public response is immediate and intense- “Hang them.” It feels like the only proportionate response to something so deeply violent and violating. And I understand that reaction. Sexual violence is not an abstract crime. It is a […]
Author: seemahtiwarii
At twenty, I left Delhi. Not because I hated it. Not because I was running away. But because something inside me knew that comfort can sometimes become a cage. Delhi was everything I knew. The cafés where the staff remembered my order. The friends who knew my stories before I finished telling them. The noise, […]
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Feminism is for Everybody
Before joining the Swar Fellowship, I had read bell hooks’ Feminism Is for Everybody and admired its simplicity and clarity. But only after spending months in the field did her ideas start feeling real. Hooks talks about feminism not as a theory, not as something meant for a classroom or an elite group, but as […]
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Innocent Until Proven Guilty?
The more I read criminal law, the more I realise how fragile balance is. On one side, there are survivors of sexual violence who already face stigma, disbelief, and social pressure. On the other side, there is a foundational principle of criminal law: the accused is presumed innocent until proven guilty. Sometimes these two ideas […]
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My Quiet Transition as a Swar Fellow
When I first began my journey as a Swar Fellow, I carried a mix of excitement and uncertainty. I came with my training, my notebook, my frameworks, and the belief that I was ready to understand the community. But community work, I realised, does not begin with knowledge. It begins with surrender with letting go […]
One of the most powerful parts of my Swar Fellowship has been learning how differently women experience life, opportunity, and oppression. In the beginning, I used to think “women’s issues” were similar everywhere mobility, safety, income, workload. But as my fieldwork deepened, I realised something more complex: every woman’s struggle is shaped by the multiple […]
When I look back at the last few months of my Swar Fellowship, I realise that the most powerful part of this journey hasn’t been the activities or the reports, it has been the quiet, slow, human process of building trust. As fellows, we enter communities with a project plan, a purpose, and a list […]
During my fieldwork as a Swar Fellow, there were many moments when the theories I had read suddenly came alive in front of me. But nothing struck me as strongly as the idea Simone de Beauvoir wrote in The Second Sex: “One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.” I had studied this earlier, […]
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